The Pain of Seeing a Wonderful Woman Question Her Worth

It absolutely kills me to see my girl best friend (F29) who’s loving, sensitive, mature, and everything a good and long lasting Indian marriage needs, struggling to find a husband. She’s the kind of person who would make any relationship thrive—I know this because I’ve been happily married for over three years and can see her potential as a partner so clearly. Yet here she is, feeling sad and questioning herself, while the world seems blind to her worth. Meanwhile, the whole Indian arranged marriage scene feels like a mess—people chasing superficial qualities or avoiding commitment altogether. She deserves someone who sees her for the incredible person she is, and I wish I could fix this for her because watching her feel unfulfilled breaks my heart.

Rant over.