Can transition of wealth be called dowry?

Guys, don't down vote. If you think it's wrong then call it out. Don't try to suppress a new view point.

Let me briefly explain how marriage works in my community. In summary, both the groom and the bride contribute almost equally to the wedding expenses. Apart from that, the bride's side can give whatever they wish to their daughter, while the groom also receives a certain amount of generational wealth from his family.

My issue is with the perception of dowry. When a bride receives something from her family, it is labeled as "dowry," often with a negative connotation. However, when the groom receives wealth from his family, it is considered normal. Why is there a difference in how these are viewed?

I understand that dowry is a broad subject, and some people misuse it to demand more from the bride’s family. However, given the setting in my community, I feel there is a perception problem regarding dowry—essentially, the passing of wealth from one generation to another.

What are your thoughts?