Feeling unattracted to a match

33 M here , been on this crazy roller coaster of AM where multiple girls have broken my heart with initially saying yes and rejecting later due to various silly reasons. Some my own family has rejected which I had liked. Have fought enough with them and got tired right now. I think have a burn out in AM and in work also. So we met a match recently the family and the girl are insterested. But I didn't feel attracted to the girl. Apart from that they are a very good family and the girl seemed decent enough. A very bold girl. I somehow can't get my mind around the fact that I am not attracted to her. Over thinking if that's a thing that i would regret it later.

The girl is interested in me.

After me getting rejected by many possible matches I feel I should not think about all these things , I would be the idiot if I end up rejecting her after all this drama I have been through.

I am educated enough to know that looks matter only to an extent. But I always had a criteria that I should get attracted to a girl that I am marrying. I don't know I am lost in this. I might sound being shallow here I get it. Somehow my mind is in the dumpster on this. I want to self reflect on this , I seek advice from people who are married.