Thinking of exploring non-working educated girls
Recently, I advised a person on a post in this sub, to marry with non-working educated woman (He was not getting matches due baldness, he is earning good salary).
It dawned on me, why don't I do the same? I am 31M, working as Software Engineer, above average looks, 5.8 height, average body type, earning good salary (40+lpa), no generational wealth. I started looking for girls through AM route in last 4-5 months. I became serious during January, I did get few matches and only met 3 girls 1-1. I rejected 2 girls (girls were totally different than their photos) and waiting for 1 girls response (mostly she has rejected me just haven't communicated yet)
My criteria was - 26-31F, atleast graduated, working woman (salary - min 7 lakh), same caste, complexion doesn't matter, body type either average or athletic, without any facial abnormalities, living in Mumbai or surrounding area. I belong to Marathi community (96Kuli Maratha).
The criteria of working woman was introduced by my parents because they feel according to my education-salary i should also get married to some working woman. We already have house maid for most of the work and my partner does not have to do any chores at home.
But after 3-4 months of tiring efforts I realised that such girls are either don't want to marry (me?) or they are not in a hurry, But I desperately want to get married.
I grew up in lower-middle class environment and just few years ago I achieved financial stability, bought a house. My parents feel that non-working girls don't know the value of money. But i think I can gauge this in initial discussion and filter out those girls.
Should I start exploring non-working but similarly educated girl's prospects? Does anyone see any downside to this? Any suggestions to what to look for as red flags for such prospects?