AIO Girlfriend wants me to lie to the government
I M25 and my girlfriend, F21, have been together for around 8 months. I was just laid off from my job yesterday, and the threat of my apartment bills and having no income has been over my head. This morning she told me I should file for food stamps and put her on the household as a favor. She doesn’t live with me in my apartment, or help with any of the bills for the apartment, and lives with her father. Granted she still has bills of her own, but she was recently denied benefits of her own because she didn’t qualify. She just barely made over the threshold of qualification. When I told her I wasn’t comfortable lying to the state, and that I thought it was pretty insensitive to ask, especially not even a day after being laid off, this was her response to me.
We frequently have arguments like this and at times I start to drive myself pretty crazy wondering if certain behaviors are okay or if I’m truly overreacting. AIO?