AIO to my “friends” response to me unfriending her on social media ? Lo

About two days ago while scrolling through my news feed I saw one of my closest friends interacting with my abusers family. My ex gave me a great deal of trauma to the point that now my address and voters registration is private because after being arrested he sent his family members to continue and help him mentally and emotionally abuse me by the form of stalking. I moved twice, the most recent time being 2 hours away from everyone I knew and loved because I was absolutely so terrified for me and my babies life.

I contemplated saying something to her and asking her to block him but she’s been so close to the situation & absolutely 100% knew this was my abusers brother and knew that she shouldn’t have even been interacting with him. Out of anxiety and fear that he could be looking for any information on me from her page, I removed her, and then after some thought, her best friend(not my friend) also. This is because if there’s anything involving my ex I didn’t want this friend to take anything that I post or say out of proportion and make the situation something that it’s not.

When she confronted me I was completely 100% honest and apologized and let her know it was something I was working on with my therapist to absolutely NO response. Not one. Today she messages me asking about her friend and accusing me of unfriending them for something totally unrelated to my abusive ex and his family. This realistically angered me and I told her it feels like she doesn’t give a fuck about my healing from this situation at all and more just seems like she cares about social media/this friend more, and basically she’s saying that she’s going to talk to me later about it.

But am I crazy to just think that me and this girl aren’t friends like I think we are ? I understand that I very much acted in an emotional and hasty way but in the tunnel vision of trauma and paranoia there was too much “what if she is complicit in this” kind of cognitive distortion going on to even think clearly.

Realistically this abuse and attempted murder of me and my unborn child to the point I gave preterm birth only happened less than 4 months ago so I’m not out of the woodwork on it yet. I would’ve thought that someone that is my friend would understand how nuanced and sometimes incomprehensible trauma is.

So. Am I overreacting ?