AIO for being upset my boyfriend was touching me sexually while I was in pain from a miscarriage?

3 nights ago we were watching TV and I was holding my stomach in so much pain and he asked me “what can I do to help you?” I told him that I didn’t know. I laid on my stomach and held my stomach and he pulled my pants and underwear down (I wasn’t bleeding yet) and started touching my butt. I pulled my pants back up and after a while he pulled them back down. I asked him if he could rub my back then started rubbing my butt. I said “no. My back” then we just kept repeating eventually he stopped and I turned to my side so he couldn’t do it anymore and then he pulled up my shirt and grabbed my boobs. I pulled my shirt down and he stopped. But then after 5 minutes and he went back and then started grabbing my nipples (I’m sorry for the tmi, I have to say it all for it to make sense later)

It killed and I flung his hand off of me. I sat up right and held my stomach. Then he held me for a minute. Then went down my pants in the front. I got mad and went to the floor away from him.

His: “I wasn’t touching you sexually. I wanted to feel your skin ‘cause it’s soft.”

Me: “you were hard,”

Him: “my bad for liking your skin? It’s just skin”

“Why couldn’t you touch my arm or something?”

“It was just the way we were lying and sitting. I want meaning anything by it.”

“Twisting my nipples and touching me down there isn’t just skin”

“It is to me”

“If you fall down and hurt yourself and you need comfort I’m not going to rub your dick to comfort you”

“That’s different. It was just skin”

Am I overreacting? Is this actually nothing? All I want is to be held during this time and I can’t because he does stuff like that but sees nothing wrong with it. It feels like he doesn’t even care