Why are people so impatient omg!

So I've been trading a lot of moon eggs in adopt me trading values and if they accept the friend request almost right away, the trade goes smooth bo problem.

But for some I have to wait a bit which I also don't mind because you don't always see stuff right away. What I do mind is thar they expect me to join right away as if I don't have other stuff to do? And i'd understand it if it was an hour or so but with this one girl it wasn't even 20 minutes.

What's even worse are those that you see are online and for hours they don't accept your request, you go to bed, you wake up and you see that you've listed it as YOUR FAULT.

I guess this is more of an adopt me values rant but honestly Ive experienced the same type of impatience on traderie for example too