Question for non ADHD people with an ADHD partner

I (M30) got recently diagnosed, I’ve been seeing regularly a therapist for two years and now I’m on my first month of medication (Ritalin). I’m in a loving relationship of five years with a non-ADHD girl. I know that sometimes it’s difficult to have as ADHD partner and I want to get better, both for the quality of my life, hers and ours together. So I ask to you, what difficulties you had or have with your ADHD partner? What you’d like them to “change” or to do better? What are the things they do mindlessly that irritate or hurt you? Thanks in advance, if you need clarifications to give me better answers I’m open to them.