F*ck Jairus

I feel like I constantly see people talking about Jairus or defending him more than Acacia and OBVIOUSLY Acacia does not deserve to be defended, but literally neither does Jairus in any capacity. Like are people forgetting that he is a groomer? And abuser? like ??? I saw someone on twitter say that it was “evil” of Acacia to call Cali Calliope knowing Jairus doesn’t like it, but honestly you’d be f*cked to think that, as someone who was groomed and abused, I would care about whether my groomer/abuser liked something let alone calling me evil for it as if it’s not evil for him to be a literal child groomer and abuser. I think that when talking about Jairus there shouldn’t be any “oh I’m not defending him BUT” when we know for a fact he groomed her. And knowing that he is a groomer gives us more indication that he was likely also manipulative and abusive. You cannot groom someone without being manipulative. I see people saying they he saw him and his girlfriend out and the kids looked well cared for, if we know that they were not well cared for by either him or Acacia before, why would we assume it’s him that had anything to do with them looking well cared for now and not his girlfriend who could be making him be “more family oriented” in the way we say that Jax is doing it with Acacia? To paint him as the better person or parent in the situation just doesn’t work out with all that we do know. That isn’t to ever say that Acacia is, they both are terrible, and the things they have done are unjustifiable. Idk I really hate to see anyone defend him or someone like him with the information that we do have.