FOURTH UPDATE

Ok so, no more talking too much. I'll just get straight to the point. Y'all... SHE'S PREGNANT... Madison (fake name) AKA my ex bsf, is pregnant. So basically, first, I don't know how long afar she is or when did this happen BUT here's how I knew, she texted me from probably one of her friends(?) Phone and texted me from it. This is what she said (copy pasted from the chat) "This is what you're missing on rn. My baby will unfortunately grow up without an aunty, (referring to me bc we grew up together and treated each other like real sisters) who'll love him dearly and shower him with gifts.. Not to sound rude, but I really really wanted you to be apart of this journey with me, but your stubbornness and selfishness ruined it. Even though you completely shattered my heart and destroyed my confidence, I still want you in my baby's life. For now, we'll put the past behind and move on, until baby is born. Me and __ (my ex) are happy to welcome you back into our lives with open arms. Love you lots!"

And on the bottom, there was a photo of a ultrasound 😨.. I blocked her immediately. You know something? Remember the fb post she posted about me? That message she sent up there ⬆️ was AFTER I responded to her. Sorry to disappoint y'all with my response but I thought that it was the only suitable one. I only responded with a link to my reddit posts (like how some of y'all suggested ) and "threatened" that if she continued spreading false info/lies about me, I'll make sure to sue her for defamation. What happened after? The post was gone, but the evidence is still with me. I assume that she tried to manipulate and guilt trip me into everything she said. Not happening today or tomorrow. I know I may seem like I'm just casually typing all this like it was normal but in reality, I'm speechless, shocked nd lowkey shaking. I'll try to respond to as many people as possible tonight. But after that, I'll leave this account for a few weeks. Also, to that one person who messaged me in private, thank you so so much for the advice. I'm sorry to everyone that went through something like this. We a deserve better.