Update: My husband gave his friend my lunch

This isn’t gonna be a long update at all. I talked to my husband after he got home today and long story short, they have feelings for one another.

He denied cheating but I feel like there was at least emotional cheating. I don’t know what to do as I’ve been with him since I was 16 and he was my first everything, I can’t even imagine a life without him.

I’m currently at my mom’s house. I came over here after all the chaos, he’s been blowing up my phone with text and calls. First he was apologetic, to it was “she means nothing and now I’m insecure woman he claims.

He tells me he still loves me but if I’m with you then I want to be the only one you love. Lots of you also pointed out that he was disrespectful which he was and I can’t stand for that either.

I checked the ring camera and her car is currently in our driveway. Anyways, I feel like complete shit. Me and him mostly have mutual friends since I didn’t have much friends in high school, just college which is where I met him (we were in the same friend group). I’ve been crying and I’ll admit embarrassingly I’ve thrown up about twice. My mom has been super supportive and tonight she’s letting me forget with ice cream and rewatching love island. But she said it’ll be temporary as me and her need to have discussions on what will be with me and my husband going forward.

That’s it though, thanks for all the advice I got and completely things get better.

Again, I’m sorry if any of this is hard to understand as my hands are very shaky. Sorry and please refrain from any hate comments.