Question about AEW’s extreme wrestling.

So I very recently started watching AEW (just before grand slam) and Revolution was amazing! And of course two of the stand outs were Toni/Mariah and Osperay/Fletcher. Both of which were great extreme bloody matches. My question is, how violent/ extreme would you say AEW is compared to prime ECW?

This second paragraph I’ll just tell you who I am/ what I know so you can know context. So I’m 24 years old and have been watching wwe till like 2019. Got back into WWE cause Netflix here in the UK. And both AEW and WWE have been great. So I used to watch WWE DVDs (grandad worked at a tv broadcasting thing) and have watch Cactus Jack vs Randy and stuff but never ECW. So how extreme was ECW and how extreme is AEW

Ps: I am Bi, and AEW feels more progressive than WWE. I get Tony Khan is like the Vince, it’s hard to be as evil a human being as the latter. But how progressive is the team behind AEW. And I know some of the talent like Toni storm are queer (BI). So is it a more progressive company, yay or nay.