Ari is so disturbing for this. Thoughts?

I came across this clip on IG after watching the latest between the sheets episode and I’m glad I’m not the only one who was disturbed by this interaction. Avi is only 3 or 4 years old. His priority should be to play his games, be a kid, have fun and be loved, not be responsible for filling the void in his mother’s heart due to her inability to relinquish control and emotionally mature. I watched her first season on TOW and empathized with her difficulty of giving birth and being postpartum in a 3rd world country with no family or support but her personality has always been manipulative and off putting. I feel badly for Avi as I have an enmeshed mother and struggled for years to break the codependency. I have heard that it is common in Jewish families for the mother to guilt the children (I am in no way trying to be offensive it’s what I have been told by people I know who are Jewish please educate me if I misinterpreted) it is also common in catholic families, well really in a lot of family dynamics but either way it doesn’t make this right. What are others thoughts on this clip? Would love to hear