Guys Help 😭😭😭

so basically I’m the only girl in my family (not sure if this makes any difference) but my parents won’t let me move out for uni so that basically just limits me to like 1 option. I wanna do Arabic and theology and stuff like that in uni so not many unis do that and before I was planning for Oxford but just saw that they require students to live near there 😭😭😭 but yeah any of you guys been in my situation please give me advice to convince them 😭😭😭😭